whether you are a freshman or a senior, studying abroad or going to college in your hometown, it's n
atural to have a period of adjustment when you leave home .Experiencing new things and meeting diffe
rent people can be exciting and stressful at he same time. Sometimes,it can make you feel a deep des
ire to return to the people and situations you know best.
The good news is that homesickness goes away eventually. As you gradually get used to your new surro
undings, you will grow more comfortable. You will also gain a sense of confidence and independence b
y knowing that you can learn to adjust.Here are some tips to make your adjustment easier.
Accept that things will be different;being different is not bad or wrong. Growing up means learning
to be flexible in different situations, so this is the process of preparing you for a wonderful futu
re.
Focus on what you are gaining. Instead of thinking about everything you are missing. focus on what y
ou are gaining by being away . Think about all the new experiences you can share with friends and fa
mily when you return
Get involved with other people. Knowing that you will see the same faces and interact on a regular s
chedule helps a lot
talk about your feelings Homesickness is natural .it does not mean you are weak,only that you have e
xperienced love and security in your home life .and that is a good thing.if you have experienced lov
e and security in your home life .and that is a good thing.if you find you are having trouble ,talk
to a friend, a roommate,or a campus counselor . it is important to admit your feelings rather than k
eep them inside. you are certainly not the first student to experience homesickness, and by sharing
with others what you are going through,you will find even more ways to start to adjust.