We can always see that in some educational programs,
some experts keep on promoting that good parents should
tell the children to be ready to help those in need, which will benefit the kids in the long run;
however, best sellers from Amazons often emphasize on
the importance of the habit of being well-organized in life details.
Parents always get confused and do not have a clear idea of
what comes first in early children education.
When it comes to me, children are supposed to learn to be honest at an early stage,
for honesty not only benefits the interpersonal relationship
but also helps career achievement in the future.
As for the willingness to help others and the ability to manage the life,
i believe they are important but could be acquired later,
not as early as when the kids are 5-10 year old.